Theme Weddings
Weddings today are almost always personalized in someway.
Planning a Theme Wedding just takes this a little further.
A Theme Wedding can reproduce many things, but basically
a theme wedding is when all the aspects of your wedding
are influenced and represent a specific topic. Usually a
theme is chosen because the couple is are fond of a particular
period in time, season of the year, holiday, place in the
world, hobby or even a time in history and they want their
wedding to reflect this. Everything about the wedding including
the invitations, attire and decorations are usually chosen
to reflect their theme. Themes are a great way to help you
choose aspects of your wedding. Having a theme gives you
a vision and helps you choose options for your wedding so
things come together in a way that makes visual harmony.
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Green Weddings
The current trend of helping our planet has moved into the
wedding industry. There are many wedding companies that
offer green choices to brides and grooms. It's not only
gaining in popularity, it's also getting much easier with
many green options becoming available. Some couples are
opting for even just a few green options for their wedding
to do their part and feel good about their wedding planning
decisions. Going green can cost more in some situations,
but there are many green ideas that can actually save you
money. Everything from using organic wine for your wedding
reception to having a website to help reduce the use of
paper. The goal of a green wedding is to follow the 3 R's,
Reduce, Reuse and Recycle. Visit our Green Wedding Chapter
for lots of great Green Wedding ideas.
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Wedding
Flowers
Some of the more well-liked flowers being used in bouquets
and boutonnieres are Orchards, Calla Lilies and of course
the classic rose. The trend is using boldly coloured flowers,
hand tired with large ribbons. Flowers are being used with
lots of foliage, faux pearls, crystals, feathers, and beading
in bouquets to add a lot of interest to the flower bouquets.
Also wedding bouquets with long flower stems or just a few
large flowers tied together are also very popular.
For destination weddings, many Brides are
choosing to carry one or three long stem exotic flowers
like the Bird of Paradise flower. Remember flowers always
look best if they are used in odd numbers and using flowers
in season with help with the cost.
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Wedding Colours
The most current colour combinations being used in weddings
today are brown tones with light pink or light blue. These
colours are very beautiful together being a little bold,
yet still very elegant. Browns are also being used with
creams and tones of green and copper. You will find these
colours are available throughout wedding
vender's products including decorating and wedding
attire. The monochromatic look is also very popular in resent
years. Using white, silver, gold, creams, and tans to decorate
with, making most of the surfaces that same or close to
the same colour.
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Wedding
Gowns
Many of the trendy wedding gowns are strapless
with tie backs and have less embellishment
on them. This is a very elegant look. Wedding
gowns are also available in cream, and very pale pink and
blue to compliment the men's brown tuxedos. Some wedding
gowns have eye-catching crystal beading draped over the
back. Sometimes beading can be added to gowns to enhance
it after it has been bought.
An unique alternative to having something blue, is to have
the inside of your wedding gown monogrammed with your name
at the bottom, near the hem. Then if the gown is passed
down through the generations, the other Brides' names can
be added. Of course this would only be practical if the
gowns style and fabrics allows it to be done properly and
so it doesn't show from the outside. We suggest that you
always use professionals when doing anything to alter your
wedding gown.
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Women's
Attire
Long sleek and simple gowns remain to be the most popular
for the bridesmaids' gowns. Many
of the fabrics include dupioni silk, silk chiffon and satin,
velvet and crepe. The women's attire has always been colourful
offering many choices, but the latest trends in colour for
women's gowns are rich jewel tones. Purples, deep reds,
greens, and coppers are all popular, but light pink, blue,
yellow and taupe are still a common choice usually complimented
with brown tones as their wedding colours. Many of the jewel
tones also compliment brown. As with the bridal gowns, many
of the Bridesmaids dresses are strapless and very formal.
Wraps are often used to give a little arm cover for the
women. Some brides like to move away from the current trends
and choose have bolder taste, for them there is a vast variety
of gowns with elaborate details. Bright coloured dresses
with everything from fur to feather embellishments are available.
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Jewellery
Sparkling crystals are everywhere, especially with bridal
jewellery and there is something for everyone's taste in
jewellery. The crystals come in clear or coloured to complement
your wedding colours. Often crystals are
used in the women's hair and crystal jewellery completes
the look. Some tiaras can be made into jewellery to wear
after the wedding. How special is that?
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Make
up and Hair
Make up continues to be applied naturally with a lot of
earth tones. 
Hair Extensions are become more popular and are easier to
use, be sure to ensure that they blend perfectly with your
natural hair colour. These are great for those people that
don't want to have to grow their hair for months before
the wedding day. They also allow for a
lot of style flexibility.
Brides are choosing to use a lot of crystals in their hair
to match their jewellery Many Brides Maids are also using
dazzling crystals in the hair to add sparkle. Crystals hair
pieces come in the form of tiaras, hair pins and even jewellery
pieces can be used in the hair.
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Men's
Attire
As mentioned above, brown is one of the most newly used
colours in weddings and tuxedos are no
exception. Tuxedos are available in many shades of brown,
but deep chocolate brown seems to be the most popular choice.
Of course, the classic black tux will never go out of date
and many couples are still choosing it.
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Wedding
Transportation
If you want to ride in an old classic car for your wedding
some limousine companies have beautiful antique cars for
rent. Many couples are also choosing to rent large SUV's
or buses for the entire wedding party and
family to ride together on the wedding
day. This way the party isn't interrupted and everyone stays
together.
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Wedding
Food
Having a chocolate fountain at your wedding
is becoming a common practice. They're a great way to add
interest to your food table. The wedding guests absolutely
love these as the smell of chocolate fills the room. They
come in several flavours of chocolate including milk, dark
and white chocolate. The number of fountains and their size
depends on the number of wedding guests
you are expecting and when you are planning on serving the
fountains. One note, chocolate fountains can be a little
messy and do need some supervision. So if you hire a company
that rents fountains, ask if they also offer their catering
services while it's being served. It will ensure that it
is used right (no little fingers in it), that it doesn't
run out of the food that is being dipped and everything
stays fairly clean, we all know how messy dripping chocolate
can be. Chocolate fountains can be served with everything
from fruit, marshmallows, rice crispy squares to cookies.
You may wish to have it set up and running for your wedding
reception dinner's dessert, as an appetizer before the main
meal, at night during your buffet at the dance, or served
while your wedding guests wait for the
wedding party to arrive to the wedding
reception.
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Wedding
Cakes
Wedding cakes have come a long way and
the variety of cake and filing flavours will thrill any
palate. The options in cake decorating and cake toppers
have also expanded including personalized Bride and Groom
cake toppers that are made to look like the couple getting
married. Many couples are choosing to replace
their wedding cake with mini wedding cakes or cupcakes.
The trend today for set up of wedding cakes is to place
the wedding cake table in front of the head table and decorated
to complement the head table decor.
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Wedding
Photography and Video
Wedding photography has come a long way
with technology. With digital photography photographers
are able to do so much more with your wedding pictures.
Wedding photos have become great pieces of art for you to
admire and treasure for the years to come. One of the most
popular things available is the coffee table book. It is
a wonderful
way of keeping a record of your wonder day. Your house guests
can browse through it when they visit you in your new home.
Some couples are choosing to have their photos taken before
the ceremony is another new trend in wedding photography.
Yes, you won't first see each other at the wedding ceremony,
but there are great benefits and it can be very romantic
to first meet on your wedding day in a beautiful photo setting
like a park. One of the first benefits is your appearance
will be much fresher for the photos. Normally if there are
tears flowing at the wedding ceremony, it's hard to take
the time to refresh makeup before pictures. Also, if it's
a hot day and people are perspiring during the ceremony,
it will affect how they look in your pictures. Another big
benefit is you are able to go directly to the wedding reception
after the ceremony without making all your wedding guests
wait while you travel to the location for the photo shoot
and have all the photos taken.
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Wedding
Guests Favours
One of the newest wedding favour ideas that is catching
on is charitable donations. Make A Wish Foundation,
and many other charities offer wedding favour donations
on behave of the wedding guests. Each wedding guest receives
a card at the wedding reception to let
them know about the donation and how it will help others.
Sometimes the charities include thank you cards as well.
You may just want to give a total sum to an organization
that has meaning or has helped your family in the past.
If this is the case, you can make up your own cards to place
on your guests tables and maybe even have your Master of
Ceremony announce the donation so everyone understands what
you have done.
Personalized favours are also becoming very popular and
the amount of choices is on the rise. Edible photo favours
can be made out of cookies and chocolate in all sorts of
shapes including boxes with a photo of the Bride and Groom
on them. The options in personalized labels are also endless,
but chocolate bars and small wine bottles continue to be
some of the most popular choices. Calling cards are another
interesting favour that we are seeing in recent months.
Brides and Grooms can give personalized calling cards which
they choose the number of minutes on the cards they would
like to give their wedding guests as a thank you.
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Wedding
Invitations and Stationery
Technology is starting to take the place of paper stationery.
Email Invitations are an option for couples, especially
if most of their family and friends are online. Beautifully
graphic email invitations are available and they can save
you a lot of money and time. The wedding guests can then
easily and quickly reply to the Bride and Groom online.
There's no fear of the wedding guests loosing their wedding
invitation in the mountain of papers that always seem to
pile up. Usually the companies that offer this product also
offer printed invitations as well for those wedding
guests that do not have email.
Personalized Stationery is also very popular. The Bride
and Groom are able to customize the invitations by choosing
the paper type, colour, embellishes and of course the print
style and colour. There are so many choices of striking
papers and embellishments available for weddings, surely
something for everyone and every wedding.
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Wedding
Decorations
Wedding decorations can be absolutely breath
taking for your wedding guests when they
walk into your place of wedding ceremony and wedding reception.
Lighting has become a very important aspect of wedding
decorating and can be used in many ways. Usually spot lighting
is used for features like the wedding cake and mini lights
are used under tooling and other sheer material to add sparkle.
Chair covers are also use very commonly and are available
in many different colours and fabrics to match your wedding
colours perfectly and are a great way to dress up a room.
Centerpieces are also one of the more important items and
also one of the easiest to make a statement with. In the
last few years centerpieces have become very grand. Tall
vases with large flowers and other items like big coloured
feathers and crystals are being used in centerpieces.
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Wedding Planning Extras
Wedding Insurance is available for the
"just incase circumstances". The insurance will
cover you incase of cancellation or if a vender doesn't
provide their services. These companies usually also offer
insurance for the place of reception which is usually required
in Ontario.
Personalized Bobble Heads of the Bride and Groom are a fun
way of topping your cake. These are special order and they
need a photo of the couple.
Ice sculptures are also very popular at weddings.
They can be made in many different shapes and can be used
for different things.
Wedding Websites
Wedding websites are becoming
a must for couples. There are so many things that can be
done through a website including guests replies, the couple
can post special thanks to family and friends that are helping
with their wedding, guests can sign the
online guest book, maps to the wedding
ceremony and reception can be posted for guests to review
and print off before the wedding, written
introductions with pictures of the wedding
party can be posted, and my favourite, posting engagement,
bridal shower and wedding photos on the
website for guests to view and enjoy. Wedding
websites don't have to cost a lot. Most people have free
web space available through their internet provider and
don't even know it. There are many templates available online
and you may even know someone that has website building
experience that can do it for you as a wedding
gift.
Wedding Web Cams can broadcast your wedding
around the world. This is an option for couples that are
getting married a long distance from where their family
and friends live so everyone can share and experience their
special day.
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Wedding Ceremonies
Many couples today prefer to write their own wedding
vows, or at lea st
part of them. If this is something you are interested in,
talk it over with your officiant.
Butterfly releasing is a very romantic occurrence. Butterflies
are usually released right after the wedding
ceremony. The couple or wedding party releases
the butterflies outside the place of ceremony. When handling
butterflies there are important instructions that need to
be followed, so make sure the directions are clear to everyone
involved.
Destination weddings are also become more
accepted. The Bride and Groom usually invite a small number
of people to go on vacation with them, where they are married
and usually continue their honeymoon. Some will have a wedding
reception upon their return to include more of their family
and friends. Some local photographers will even go to your
destination wedding.
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Wedding
Receptions
Many wedding reception venues are offering
packages to choose from. Each package includes
a different level of their products and services. Often
everything is included right down to the taxes and tips,
making it easier to budget your wedding
reception. Always be sure that all the details are clear
and in a contract.
Making It Social - One of the newest trends is to set up
a conversational area for the wedding guests. Many couples
rent modern or leather furniture and set it up in an area
away from the main wedding reception.
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Entertainment for Your Guests
Slide shows are a great way to make your wedding
special and tell the life story of the bride and groom.
What better way to celebrate the union of your lives together
than celebrate the steps in life that brought you to your
wedding day. With today's technology this
is very easily achieved. You can either have a pre-recorded
script or have someone follow along with a script and microphone
You can either have it playing as your wedding
guests arrived to the wedding reception
to entertain them while they wait for you to finish with
your photo shot or have it played as part of your wedding
speeches.
Dancing
Another growing trend in weddings
is to hire cultural dancers or musicians to perform at your
wedding reception. This could be Irish
dances to African drummers. Most cultures have distinctive
music and/or dance. This is a wonderful way to bring your
heritage into your wedding day to celebrate
and show your family your pride in your culture.
Another fun trend is performing a dance routine yourself
for your guests. Many couples are going to the lengths of
learning a dance routine to perform for their first dance.
Some couples incorporate their best man and maid of honour
also. The more radical the dance is the better. This can
be a great way to breath life into the party and shock your
wedding guests. The room will literally
come to life as you dazzle your wedding
guests through dance. Some couples will have the disc jockey
start a traditional slow song and then stop and start the
fast song, just to catch the wedding guests off guard. If
you want to do this invest in the expertise dance teacher
and have them choreograph a dance that's suitable to you
and your dance skills and have fun.
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